STORY OF LIFE Study

MY MARRIAGE INANITESA
I had been working in the same company for the transportation of minerals from Tanzania to deploy Bang kok in Thailand. Our company as an individual and was in the region of Arusha. I Sweedy Kachenje one that the department of transportation, as a sales officer.
In all my life I rely too much and I need a partner to live with him, as well as other best family every day that are fun and contentment. For every one that mwanandani of another. Also I asked God for every situation is not the church and even I in my break, anipatie woman who was useful in life yangu.Kila day next morning I awake with the idea of ​​finding beloved and anipendaye.Niliamini so even though I was not sure if they actually would get someone like that in life mine.
I always strive to be the best example that I can get married, I was obedient, I respect my colleagues to share good build Taifa.Kujaribu have many friends of the opposite sex. I struggled those friends would probably feel useful kumbahatisha of my perfume. Despite all that I could find that I dearly love from the heart, and who loves me. Exceeded anishushie ask God's grace to find my perfume. Has come when I asked for advice, but those I have asked advice seemed to be destitute of mawazo.Walinishauri saying kuoa.Eti woman I marry is taught as would have a tendency mbaya.Nikafikiri hundred hundred times I saw their advice has meant more to blindness.
"Mr. Kachenje means the excess of women in the world is a mistake you love? "It was a question I loulizwa and friends yangu.Hatahivyo I won to answer and finally I despise.
"It is significant to choose kuishinae wife is the same as picking up a portion of the fish market, or what?" Without kujijibu I wondered at the time.
I failed to pick up the wife provided the wife as a man vyookota tomato market and pay the money, I think even with her grandmother who gathered chooses. While there is the slogan chosen coconut finds expression purring I opposed and kuutupilia off. I believed speech to marry are marrying so perhaps I make my marriage isinge have a taste of conjugal life and would be over soon.
Was filled with the belief that a good wife is given by God, I live in the hope of God and I rely on significant support from him. God gave my parents were alive they blessing waiting for me to see a marry-in-law and grandchildren before he died. Unfortunately I could not be a good scope to see who could be married to my wife, but I have a good job and my position at work made me sound like I tidy at all.
Most people who see me were very nishangaa, as I had never seen on any woman who accompanied him in my life. Not that I have any malformed body!. No I was a virile man, and I did not want to engage in sex, as diseases like flies on mzoga.Licha yamezagaa diseases, adultery is a great sin out of ndoa.Nilitambua that it is not pleasing to the Creator to all kidogo.Siku I would blame themselves, spread to when I want to pick up woman even bars, and six heart if you asked me to be patient, patient zaidi.Lakini would hurt the intestines. Does this patient approach will yield fruit or nikunizidishia pensions?. Nikayatupilia off the wrong idea. I had to be patient I felt perhaps I found him who loves me and I love him.
My age approached the age of forty. State that very iliwaogopesha my parents, who were staggered elders. I was born the only child of male and three sisters.
My parents were tired and my words. "We still see the old. Nitaoa God willing, a good wife is given by God "All these years I have najitetea do so.
There came a time father and mother wanted to let me deceive curse after more than ten years out I could make money and build a house. They wanted their grandchildren thy saw them before they died, they know that they are old, they would not live five or seven years before they lost their lives.
To satisfy parents and evading pleased I invoke wanitafutie wife. I believed I got a wife whose parents had useful life. "Father, loving daughter, so I have no need to love" I said to himself after kunichagulia Assignment girl who has all the qualities that a woman should have. It is one of the discipline for the buck. I had a little fun, because I felt I had full Mist unpopularity and dislike.
Overall I did not know it was the examination of God because I am one of the boys who were laughing young couples chosen by their parents, no action I selected hates like a girl and parents. I had the confidence of his young wife, then even married elected ingejaa endless conflict and probably ikavunjika.
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Our company was called JOPHU MINING TRANSPORT CO LTD, with our company, he was known by the name of Mandy Jophu Elder. Was the director and owner of the company.
Seventy years there was no AIDS epidemic, as there was then it was not lijajulikana as now. I was going to Thailand every week Countries selling the Tanzanite mining. I always had a close bond with our owner Elder Jophu. No one dared talk to the old man who looked Jophu face austerity at all. It never passed a day without calling Jophu old "Sweedy come" nk.Alikuwa kazoea my name, also loved me as his own.
One day I left the field of Kia (Kilimanjaro International Airport) I tend In Thailand, Bang My kok.Vaaa toshani model for someone who does not know me, say I am a person with money to make me call it rich. I wore a gray suit, under mchongoko I wore shoes, youth now calls them 'Spear heart' left hand I hold 'breefcase'lililojaa mining Tanzanite.Pia I wore sunglasses, which caused barely see my eyes.
I had been carrying minerals gram 5000gm. Equivalent to five kilograms Kg 5. Kilo two was a pale blue color A and three kilograms (3kg) was the color of urine, for those residents Mirerani know better when they see the color of coke that drinking water was (gm 50) .
Birds of Tanzania land left on a four-hour half morning, where the air waves ilichanja two hours and ten seconds iltua international airport Bang kok.Nilifanikiwa drop safe with a fifth man. I did not go to the market that day, I headed to the rented car parking amabako I rent a car.
"Halo.kutoka here to Care lodge is how much money?"
"Empire tano.Karibu"
"I did not argue too much because I believe the word of a 'nipunguzie master' is here kwetu.Alinifungulia front door, I pull my right leg and entered the front door right of dereva.Gari it was 'Left hand'. Went straight to hotel called CARE LODRGE. driver spent four minutes into the gate of the hotel hiyo.Nilipofika, I grant him his wages, I tend to accept the office of visitors (Reception). I did not want to do business at the same time. I decided recreation complex due to the fatigue of the journey, an interesting thing I saw before my eyes I could not believe my eyes were the same as or how, I tried to rotate the eyes is probably the fog of kutokuwahi love. Strange but my heart stopped as several seconds, then continued his pulse became very gradual, that I could not even hear. I felt sweat likitiririka simple, first I looked and I looked at him, but I believe that her beauty would never again Tanzanian loved a black man?.
I saw one mwanadada who sat next to reception worker at the hotel, the girl was not a white European, muhindi not muhindi, an Arab is not even on the black Arab was absent. After five minutes, I am open wide the eye of lust, she greet.
"Kaka your information"
"Good, I know you guys" I replied greetings to all, I still have not chop up near mwake.Sikushughulika eye with this one, my eyes already yalishapata chakula.Nilimtizama ikuniisha I tabani desire not to stay there when my eyes of plenty.
"I'm grown" he responded the girl and who follow it wamapokezi.
"When I grown too" they greet.
Sikupenda stay and the burden of great value I register my name and take a room number kumi.Kila I want to move toward the room I paid for, I was reluctant to stay open mouth, body bweteka always wanted to know each other more and mwanadada yule.Niliamua kujilazimiza leave but provide for ilitukutika, I opened my door, I turned kumtizama that you mbwendekama as I am sure he will be pale.Nilimuona him as he looks.
"Child, child, Duu!. Walk and see a lot of" I talked to him when I opens door, at the flick keys to the door and obeyed the law, and gave me the opportunity to kuingia.Nilihifadhi Breefcase my fast and open the door from nje.Nilikuwa I hold the keys, I found myself let no kujijua.Yote is after seeing the girl as she came from the chamber and my approach.
"Then the room I borne was near room daughter whom I greeted him shortly since I reach there." Nilijisemea heart supposed to have left mouth open, I was focused on, was has bound towels lighter kabisa.Tayari was now hath come unto me back, all he povuta stage, his hips yalitikisikia as baharini.Miguu water waves its dense nature of the average carrying lilijivuta for madaha.Nilijikuta I look at until he left off.
In fact I love him and I believe would be useful with my new internal ornament. Yet I suffer heart as he accepted what I do as a father and mother will have to marry her fiance gave me?. Idea that came to me and I decided dismissed. But let me not hurt your head I know I will be accepted or not! As they torment my soul? Exceeded thinking when I end packing room. Without relying on time again as kashikilia nambona oil lotion. This time he was coming to the front, I was able to enjoy kuisawiri its shape well, ilioonyesha competence muumba.Tembe it you could imagine kachoka well, but there is no truth lisi.Ule is real movement, spread to the point I do not think kanyagi down, by the way he walked, you think he obtained land compassion . I found myself coming nipasuka heart "paaa" I surprised him and he gave me a smile fat! lililoshamiri near mwake.Tena being limeambatana a gap mzuri.Nilishikwa scared a few minutes, I found myself on edge brain dies. Tulibaki eyes tested, then I know definitely if kunapimana hivi.Nikajitizama and kumtizama for the second time. Cardiac began kupungua.Hata so I could not bear all that I have seen on this trip.
"Sorry sister, I know your name" was watched I claim.
"Yaa!. My name is Jeniffer John "
"Okay. Thanks a good name. My name is Sweedy Kachenje "I introduced myself to kill shy lick my lips Disagree iliyochomoza as second hand and lost.
We talked a lot and Jeniffer him not being lazy to answer any questions and I chomuelezea, I believe my dream was fulfilled, the woman who found she could cover a huge gap in my life. Yet in our conversation nitamkia with his mouth that he loved him so much, than that I am loved. The daughter who Ukonga my heart and conquer every part of my body, "True patience is pull happy" I spoke quietly to the flow of ideas.
Jennifer was a mixture of European and an African (hybrid) and a girl who came from the continent of Africa as me, the difference is that he came to South Africa, and I appear Tanzania. And do not worry I left that country was poor, and poverty meant he loved me. We talked and find our thoughts being equal, willing to show me love she accepted my request of wanting to pass it anisindikize night full of pleasures of all kinds. Alidiriki leave his room and come to bed with me, I touched on a couple and it was accepted it was willing to change the Tanzanian nationality. But if he were a Tanzanian who was South Africa Tanzania tell him to come back to marry, he would jump to a hundred feet.
In terms of love, I mildew and love fervent, not be lazy to engage, we helped each other to pass the same night gentle full of affection of every kind, not the mountain we climbed back-alley we passed by a strong desire to satisfy Jeniffer who looked alien to that world. I am the morning farewell to Jennifer and Tanzanite mining market, called King Life. Before leaving I releases a phone number to contact my email address. And I decided to do it ever and tell parents of new information, not to fret because I shampata kunitafutia beautiful fiance. Succeeded in selling all the nutrients for a good price and return Tanzania.